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Our Guest Bedroom & Office Using Farrow & Ball Pigeon

Over a year later, we finally painted our guest bedroom & office using Farrow & Ball Pigeon! This is the room where we DIY’d a Murphy bed with built-in inset cabinets (see the tutorial here). I was very excited to reveal it on my Instagram the other day because we are smitten by this paint color! Keep on reading to see the before and after photos, as well as the progression of this room.

Read about how we DIY’d our horizontal Murphy bed with built-in cabinets here

Side note: our projects tend to take longer than what you typically see on social media. We focus a lot on quality and design. Mix that in with work, family and other home projects and it’s a recipe for a long lead time. We try to give ourselves grace on our home journey, especially when we’re doing the work ourselves. I truly appreciate you for sticking it out with us. My intent in sharing is to always encourage, inspire and be a point of resource for this community.

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The guest bedroom & office was put on hold when we decided to add a bathroom inside our loft with Brian’s band practice space. A tunnel was dug up between our garage and house to install a water and sewer line. There was a lot of work happening in our boiler room. Everything in our boiler room had to be moved to the guest bedroom & office. Thus, delaying progress for the guest bedroom & office.

Once we passed our electrical and plumbing inspections for the loft, it was go time! Before I share more reveal photos, here’s a look back at this project after we got done building the horizontal Murphy bed with built-in cabinets. Seeing the process always makes us extra grateful for the end result.

Where We Started

This room is approximately 13’9″ x 10’8″ with 7′ ceiling height. It was our dumping ground and an eyesore. It became a bad habit to toss everything on this bed if it didn’t have a place. Kind of like the broken windows theory.

Building the Murphy Bed with Built-in Cabinets

In July of last year, Brian impulsively took apart the bed and entire room. He had this idea to build a Murphy bed with built-in cabinets to make better use of this space and I was totally on board! Taking apart the room was to hold us accountable to follow through.

As a reminder, this room has a ceiling height of 7′ which is why we built a horizontal vs. the traditional vertical Murphy bed. You can read all about the DIY here, including the horizontal Murphy bed kit we used.

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Paint Color Selection

Deciding on a paint color wasn’t easy. Our guest bedroom & office barely gets any natural light because it’s in the basement. There’s a window well and in the summer time, the hydrangeas out front block most of the sunlight. Our main source of light is the ceiling light. The picture below is from the winter where the snow outside helps to brighten up the room.

We decided to lean into the dark moody feel of this room vs. trying to make it light and bright. Several colors were sampled and ultimately, Farrow & Ball Pigeon was the winner! It’s a blue gray color that feels sophisticated, yet casual all the same.

Level the Floor

Before painting, we decided to rip out the carpet in order to install new flooring. The carpet didn’t do the bedroom & office justice after putting in all that work. However, before we could install new flooring, we had to level out the floor.

We found a pouring company who did a fabulous job! If you’re local to the Twin Cities, I highly recommend them.  They were very professional and courteous.

Skim Coat Ceiling, Sand and Prep for Painting

We live in an old house and the walls and ceilings are not perfect. If you look closely at the upper left corner and left side, where the built-in cabinets meet the ceiling and wall, you’ll notice small gaps. To close these gaps, we floated out the ceiling and walls. Then skim coated.

Afterwards, the wood and trim were sanded down. A lot of prep work went into this before we could start priming.

Prime

Now onto the exciting part! For the first.time.ever, we planned on color drenching. Meaning to paint the walls, trim and ceiling the same color. Farrow & Ball was so gracious to send over their recommended primer and paint.

I’ve always admired the color Pigeon from Farrow & Ball. They recommend for color-drenching, to use Dead Flat finish on all the surfaces to give that seamless rich look. And that’s what we did!

The aesthetics of Dead Flat is an ultra-matte look that makes Farrow & Ball’s rich colors even richer. Also, it’s scrubbable and scuff-resistant which is ideal for high traffic areas.

Install Floor and Paint with Farrow & Ball Pigeon

Prior to painting, we had the floors installed which I’ll save this story for another time.

After the first coat on the Murphy bed, built-ins and doors, I was simultaneously excited and nervous. The color, Pigeon, is a bit of a chameleon. Depending on lighting, it can read more blue gray or taupe gray. I almost second guessed color drenching at this point because I was afraid it would look too dark.

We’ve lived with mostly white walls for so long that going dark, was a little out of our comfort zone. However, our home is our canvas and hope that it’s true for yours. It’s part of the journey to experiment and see every room and corner for its full potential. Thoughtfully creating a home for our family that we love spending time in, is our goal.

After painting the walls, ceiling, trim, Murphy bed and built-in cabinets, the guest bedroom & office started to come to life. We did two coats of paint for all the surfaces. Once the doors were installed and the plastic came off, I was in LOVE! I’m so happy we both stepped outside our comfort zone. Here are some before and after photos – enjoy!

 

Before and After

Before

After

Before

After

Our guest bedroom & office is so much more functional! We only hosts guests a handful of times a year, so a Murphy bed allows us to use the room as an office for our everyday living. Bonus that the built-in cabinets provide more linen storage since we have a small linen closet.

Also, do you see the pipe coming through on the upper left corner in the before photo above? Moving it is non-negotiable. The built-ins cleverly hide them away!

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So what do you think? Would you consider color drenching and could you envision Farrow & Ball Pigeon in your home?

Sources: Artwork is a Facebook Marketplace find | Gallery Picture Sconce

I hope this post has inspired you to make the most out of your space if you have a small guest bedroom like us.

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paint color: Farrow & Ball Pigeon with Dead Flat finish

Murphy bed kit

ceiling flush mount lighting

mattress

green upholstered armchair

leather basket

ruffled throw pillow

stripe ceramic vase

woven throw blanket

floor lamp

scallop braided jute rug

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Sweetest Regards, Patti
Beauty

My Acne Treatment Update

It’s been one week and four days since I started my new routine and wanted to give you an update on my acne journey. I wasn’t expecting to give an update this early but I could cry looking at the dramatic difference from 11 days ago! I can’t believe it. I’m sharing the details of my current acne treatment routine, along with what I believe is the biggest factor that has been helping my skin.

Read about My Struggles with Acne here

Before and After

May 19th, 2024
May 30th, 2024

The improvement from May 19th to today, May 30th, is unreal! 

It’s not easy sharing the before photo. But I want to provide empathy and encouragement for those experiencing awful hormonal acne. You are not alone. Social media has a way in making us feel like everyone has flawless skin through filters, lighting and layers of makeup. We are constantly bombarded by skincare ads of models with airbrushed-looking skin. But that is far from reality. This is my bare skin with all its textures, uneven tones and bumps.

No one has perfect skin. But for some of us, we’ve had to deal with more chronic skin issues. Cystic acne is painful and can cripple our self-esteem if we let it. I’m mostly a very happy and positive person but can’t deny that I had some hard days looking in the mirror.

When my hormonal acne flared up four weeks ago, I thought the journey to clear my skin would be long, like they have been in the past. If one pimple heals, another pops up and the cycle continues. Typically, it takes me three months to see results.  I’m blown away that it’s just under two weeks and the difference is unreal! My skin is still healing but my biggest relief is not feeling pain from those deep cystic acne.

 

My Current Acne Treatment Routine

If you read my last blog post, you know that I’ve tried everything, even Accutane.  I’m so happy to finally have found something that is helping without prescriptions. Here’s what my routine looks like:

Morning:

 

Night:

I truly believe that using Clearstem’s Hormonal Acne Supplement is the biggest factor. This is my first time taking supplement for my acne but knew that I needed to clear my skin from the inside out. I’m not associated with this brand but you can read about what convinced me to try it in this post. I was skeptical after first because I’ve suffered from acne most of my life and nothing has worked well without prescriptions. Now I’m a believer. My skin has never healed this quickly after a flare up by solely using OTC skincare and I’m convinced it’s because of this supplement. I would encourage anyone to give it a try if you’re experiencing hormonal acne and feel defeated like I did.

P.S. I used my friend, Megan’s code for a discount. She introduced me to Clearstem. Code is MEGANS for 20% off until Friday and 15% off after that. I stocked up today!

 

Other Things That I’m Doing to Manage My Acne

In addition, I ditched coffee and have been drinking Honey Chai Turmeric Vitality tea. I add a little bit of oat milk and non-dairy vanilla creamer and it tastes amazing! I’m also consuming more of my favorite foods with probiotic like Kombucha and Kimchi because they support your immune system, strengthen your bones and joints, destroy bad bacteria, and make your skin healthier. They have truly helped my digestive system.

I am so amazed and incredibly thankful by how quickly my skin has improved and hope it continues. If you’re suffering from this right now, I know how it feels. How you want to hide away but I want to encourage you to please keep on showing up. Live your life, meet friends for lunch, schedule a date night, go for walks, etc. I promise, it will help keep your mind in a more positive state and therefore, helping your acne as well.

I am so grateful that this new treatment routine without any prescriptions is working and never want my skin to return to what it was before. Thank you so much for your kind words this week after I shared my last blog post. I’m excited for my niece’s wedding this Sunday. It’s been awhile since I’ve attended a wedding and have not gone wedding guest dress shopping, yet! Wish me luck finding one!

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Sweetest Regards, Patti
Beauty

My Acne Journey to Clearer Skin

The word “acne” has such a negative connotation to it. Just like with any skin condition, no one really knows the struggle unless you’ve personally dealt with it. For me, it was debilitating, it lowered my self esteem and confidence tremendously. I’ve missed out on so many things because I wanted to hide away. It made me feel like people were judging me as if it’s something I can control.

In this post, I’ll share about my journey with acne, my current hormonal acne situation and treatment plan.

My Journey with Acne

It started when I was about 14-15 years old and has been ongoing. Unfortunately, I inherited my acne-prone skin, so genetics play a big factor. My first pimple was a giant one on my nose and there’s still a pitted scar from it. Every single day, I had at least two pimples. There was not one day that I had clear skin. They were painful and I was so embarrassed by it. I tried everything. My mom finally took me to the dermatologist during senior year in high school. Because of our financial situation, I’m sure that it wasn’t easy because those visits, along with prescription medications were costly.

List of Prescription Oral and Topical Medications I’ve Been On

  • Topical Clindamycin (finally had some relief with this and it helped for about a year)
  • Prescription Strength Benzoyl Peroxide
  • Tretinoin (worked for a short period)
  • Topical Erythromycin (helped for about a year)
  • Accutane (worked well)
  • Differin (before it was available for OTC)
  • Spironolactone

List of Over the Counter Topical Solutions *I typically use for about 3 months to give it time to see results

  • Proactiv
  • Murad
  • Clinique
  • Obagi
  • Face Reality
  • Curology
  • Mario Badescu spot treatment
  • Neutrogena
  • La Roche Posay
  • CeraVe
  • AcneFree
  • Cetaphil
  • Tatcha

The only solution that truly kept my skin clear was Accutane. I was on that in 2009 but the side effects and risks were too much so I stopped less than a year after. I’ve been given hundreds of well-meaning advice. It’s overwhelming and confusing to navigate.

Acceptance and a Miracle

I came to accept my very imperfect, bumpy skin. Then something incredible happened…

During my first pregnancy in 2013, I experienced for the first time, clear glowing skin without medications or expensive skincare! Just naturally clear skin with a simple skincare routine that would’ve never been effective prior. In fact, I could go to sleep with makeup on with no issues. It was pure bliss.

Flash forward, after I stopped breastfeeding my last baby, my skin problems came back. It was 2020 and we all know how awful that year was in general. I tried everything recommended. Expensive treatments with an esthetician, cutting out dairy, not wearing any makeup, not washing my face in the morning, popular skincare brands but nothing worked. I even did silly things like eating fresh garlic and dabbing them on my breakouts which I don’t recommend.

Acne Management

The only thing that helped manage my acne was the Proactive line which I’ve been using on and off since college. Last year, I turned 40 and felt more confident than ever. My skin was the best it had been in a long time so I let my guard down. I wanted more improvement and tried new products.

My skin was responding well until I made the mistake of using a vitamin C serum a month ago. I forgot that my skin doesn’t respond well to that 😔. A combination of this and hormonal changes meant a recipe for painful cystic acne. The skin around my jawline developed tiny bumps. Those tiny bumps turned into big painful cystic acne day after day 😭.

Hormonal Acne in My 40’s

I debated on sharing photos publicly. But decided if it can help someone else who is navigating something similar feel not so alone, that it will be worth it. I’ve felt very alone in this journey. On top of that, since I was young, I’ve been told that my nose is too wide, my skin too dark for being Asian, I’m too short and my skin could be better if I just did XYZ. The media has skewed our perception about beauty. Our physical appearance is too judged by others.

I digress, but here’s what my skin looked like three weeks ago when my hormonal acne flared up and continued to get worse until about a week ago when I started a new skin treatment routine.

my skin 3 weeks ago, when my hormonal acne flared up

My Acne Treatment Plan to Clearer Skin

Now that I’ve entered my 40’s, I’m throwing all the criticism out the door. I won’t let acne define my worth and will be patient as I work to clear up my skin. Here’s my current acne treatment plan.

I’m sticking to my basics of using the 3-step Proactiv treatment, taking Clearstem hormonal acne supplement recommended by a friend, ditching coffee and drinking tea with Turmeric, consuming more foods with probiotic and drinking lots of water.

Proactive 3-Step System: (morning and night) this haÈ™ always been the best at helping manage my acne. However, it’s like the poor boyfriend where you think you can do better. I’ve not been consistent with it and have tried other skincare on and off to experiment. But now, I’m sticking to the 3-step system both morning and night. It’s gentle on my skin, exfoliates nicely with the face wash and the toner is the best out of all that I’ve tried.

Verse Dew Point Moisturizing Gel Cream: (morning) the 3-step system will dry out my skin so it’s important that I use a moisturizer. I would use Proactiv’s tea tree oil moisturizer but it’s 3 times the cost and this moisturizes my skin the same. It glides on well and doesn’t gunk up after my 3-step routine. It’s a bit sticky though so I just use in the morning and it actually helps as the base for my foundation.

CeraVe PM Facial Moisturizing Lotion Night Cream: (night) while the CeraVe ace face wash and serums did not work for me, I love this moisturizing night cream. Feels weightless and helps my skin from drying out.

Clearstem Hormonal Acne Supplement: (take at dinner time) knowing that my skin cleared up during pregnancy, hormones play a big part with my acne. My friend Megan has been using this for over two years to manage her hormonal acne, after getting off birth control pills, before she became their brand partner (I used her code MEGANS if you want to try). She shared her journey with me using Clearstem’s hormonal acne supplement months ago but I was hesitant to try. Then when my skin was at its worst, I reached back out and she sold me on it after she texted me her before photo. Social media skincare girlies will proclaim that they’re “experts” but they’ve never actually had bad skin so….

Acne Patches: I have been through so many! I’ve used the Hero Mighty Patch when I noticed a whitehead. However, it can actually irritate my skin with these clusters of deep cystic acne and make them worse. I do use the Zitsticka Killa patch for a stand alone cystic acne and they help reduce the inflammation and heal faster.

In addition, I’m ditching coffee and drinking my Honey Chai Turmeric Vitality tea.  I add a little bit of oat milk and non-dairy vanilla creamer and it tastes amazing! I’m also consuming more of my favorite foods with probiotic like Kombucha and Kimchi. Apparently they support your immune system, strengthen your bones and joints, destroy bad bacteria, and make your skin healthier. They have truly helped my digestive system.

I’m only one week in with this routine and have noticed improvement. Typically, it takes me months. My hope is to see more improvement with clearer skin before our niece’s wedding on June 2nd.  Countdown is on! Wish me luck!

Read an update on my new acne treatment routine here. Spoiler alert, the progress has been short of amazing!

 

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Sweetest Regards, Patti
Beauty

Most Recommended Best Concealer and Foundation for Acne-Prone Skin

A few months ago, I asked my Instagram followers for recommendations on the best concealer and foundation for acne-prone skin. Lots of responses poured in! I haven’t used foundation or concealer since high school due to my acne-prone skin. It would feel so heavy and caked on but that may be because it was the cheap Wet & Wild brand.  Now that I’ve entered 40, I’m more confident than ever but still have red and brown spots from old acne scars that I want to conceal while out and about.

I’ve compiled the most recommended concealer and foundation from my community and you can read until the end to see what I ended up buying!

 

Most Recommended Best Concealer and Foundation for Acne-Prone Skin

 

Two Faced Born This Way Super Coverage Multi-Use Concealer

Too Faced - Born This Way Super Coverage Multi-Use Concealer Porcelain 0.45 oz / 13.5 ml

Rated: 4.3K stars (4,761 reviews)

Price: $36 for Size 0.45 oz / 13.5 ml

Coverage: full

Description: A hydrating, full-coverage, weightless, four-in-one, concealer that conceals, contours, highlights, and retouches in a wide range of flawless shades.

Where to Buy: Sephora

 

Tower 28 Beauty Swipe All-Over Hydrating Serum Concealer

Tower 28 Beauty - Swipe All-Over Hydrating Serum Concealer 8.0 LBC 0.22 oz / 6.5 ml Clean at Sephora

Rated: 4.3K stars (1,324 reviews)

Price: $36 for Size 0.45 oz / 13.5 ml

Coverage: medium

Description: A hydrating, non-comedogenic concealer that glides on like a serum and has the medium-buildable coverage power to instantly cover dark circles, redness, and blemishes.

Where to Buy: Sephora

 

Mac Pro Longwear Concealer

Rated: 4.2 stars (1092 reviews)

Price: $31

Coverage: full

Description: A liquid concealer that provides full matte coverage for up to 24 hours. A lightweight, liquid, long-lasting concealer with a comfortable matte finish. This pro concealer gives a smoother, flawless look to skin. The full-coverage formula helps to conceal blemishes, dark spots, skin discolouration and undereye circles

Where to Buy: Ulta, MAC store

 

Clinique Even Better Makeup Broad Spectrum SPF 15 Foundation

Clinique Even Better Makeup Broad Spectrum SPF 15 Foundation #1

 

Rated: 4.5 stars (3,872 reviews)

Price: $36

Coverage: moderate

Description: Clinique Even Better Makeup Broad Spectrum SPF 15 Foundation. Dermatologist-developed liquid foundation visibly reduces dark spots in 12 weeks.*

Where to Buy: Ulta

 

Bare Minerals Loose Powder Foundation SPF 15

bareMinerals ORIGINAL Loose Powder Foundation SPF 15 #1

 

Rated: 4.6 stars (14,763 reviews)

Price: $39

Coverage: buildable sheer to full

Description: BareMinerals ORIGINAL Loose Mineral Foundation Broad Spectrum SPF 15 is a lightweight, talc-free, skin-improving foundation made with only 5 Ingredients. It provides sheer-to-full, all-day coverage with a naturally luminous finish, while minimizing the look of pores and imperfections.

Where to Buy: Ulta, Bare Minerals, Sephora

 

Fenty Beauty Pro Filt’r Soft Matte Longwear Liquid Foundation

FENTY BEAUTY by Rihanna Pro Filt'r Soft Matte Longwear Liquid Foundation #1

Rated: 4 stars (17,325 reviews)

Price: $40

Coverage: full

Description:A soft-matte, long-wearing foundation with climate-adaptive technology to fight heat, sweat, and shine—available in a wide range of shades.

Where to Buy: Sephora, Ulta

 

Merit – The Minimalist Perfecting Complexion Stick