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The most loved items from May.

The most loved items from May.

I’m sharing all the sources for our basement family room in this post! The movie area was revealed on Tuesday on my insta and questions came flooding in. I’m beyond thankful for your kind words regarding the transformation and excited to share more of the sources here!

For more on this transformation with lots of before and after photos, make sure to check out this post.


Thanks again for all of the love on the reveal of the movie area. We plan to update the play area on the other side as well. Our thought is to replace the countertop and build cabinets to place on top of it. Which is why we didn’t install molding there.

If you’re wondering where we store the puzzles, board games and toys, they’re now inside the cabinets and the new storage console. The cabinet was under utilized and disorganized with clutter before we cleaned it out. We donated a lot of toys, given to us second hand by friends and family, that the kids have outgrown. The girls’ room has a closet that is their “secret” play room and that is where their dolls and toys are stored.

I will share all the progress of the play area on my IG stories when the time comes. I share a lot of BTS so make sure to tune into my stories weekly!
Check out these related posts:
HOW WE TRANSFORMED OUR BASEMENT INTO OUR DREAM FAMILY ROOM
BASEMENT FAMILY ROOM MOOD BOARD AND WALL MOLDING DESIGN AND LAYOUT IDEAS
BRASS FLUSH MOUNT LIGHTING ROUND UP
Photos by Wing @ Canary Grey

I used to rarely take pictures of our family room. There are a couple of reasons for that. The biggest one? We don’t bring our phones down there. This is a space we use for play and relaxation, and we try to be intentional about those things in the Wagner household. So, when we spend quality time down there, we leave our phones upstairs. And honestly…it’s a really nice break!

If you’ve been following along on Instagram, you know that our family room is in the basement. It’s always been the most relaxed part of our home. It’s the only room with a tv, and we love to watch movies down there with the kids. There’s nothing cozier than a family movie night on a cold Minnesota winter evening.
Between the tv, all the kids’ toys, and our trusty beverage fridge, this room is never lacking in entertainment or respite from a hectic day. It’s the best room for unwinding and blowing off some steam. The kids could go absolutely bananas because they knew it’s not the place where Mommy’s nice things live.


We finished out our basement space about 8 years ago, but in all that time, we’ve never taken on the project of designing it to our taste. With the chaos of raising 3 young kiddos, renovations to our rental properties, and bringing together the design elements of the more visible parts of our home, the basement family room never made it onto our priority list.
Also, it’s nice to have a room we don’t have to worry about messing up. With a lot of our upstairs furniture, we don’t let the kids jump on it or be all over it after playing outside and getting dirty. But in our family room, the former couch was a second-hand, steal-of-a-deal piece, the back counter was a collect-all for junk, and there was never a time that you didn’t see at least a handful of toys scattered about. You can’t really mess up what’s already messy.

Up until now, this had worked. While we were grateful to have scored the couch for just $100, its fabric wasn’t durable nor stain-resistant. I was getting tired of scrubbing juice and after wet-mushed-goldfish-cracker stains, out of it. My kids are 4, 6, and 9 years old, so spills are going to happen, but I began to feel my designer’s itch to beautify the space and make it more our style.

The rest of our home is rich in character from 1920’s architectural elements, and lovingly curated with my favorite classic timeless pieces, but the basement family room was kind of just a plain white shoebox. High in function but void of personality. Free from both worry and inspiration.

And now that our youngest is 4, and officially phasing out of toddlerdom (tears!), we felt the time was right to give our family room a much-deserved makeover. We love this room for all the sweet memories it has given us over the years, and we figured it was time we gave it some love back. With exciting possibilities energizing us, we started planning and decided to split the room into 2 main areas:
We started with the entertainment/movie area which is the focus of this blog post. We wanted to enjoy our regular activities down there, while also being surrounded by a beautiful space we love. With this in mind, we came up with 3 main goals to accomplish. I couldn’t be happier with where we’ve landed, and I’m so excited to show you this transformation!
In order to distract from our low 7’ ceiling, we decided to incorporate wall molding. I’ve been wanting to try wall molding in this house for forever, but the right opportunity had yet to present itself. The family room makeover was the perfect chance to test our hand at this.

Design experts advise if you have low ceilings, go with a narrow vertical box column. This is supposed to create the illusion of a heightened ceiling. However, after spending quite a bit of time mapping out 5 different options with thin blue painter’s tape, Brian and I ended up rebelling and choosing a square box shape with chair railing. It was our favorite and we went for it!
You can see pictures of the different molding designs we tested out, as well as the stunning images I referenced for inspiration here. *Note that we mapped out the molding with tape first before painting. Then after we painted, we installed the molding.
I love dark and moody colors, but after testing out multiple paint swatches in different areas of the room, it became clear that we needed to choose a lighter one.

We started with 7 different options. We painted them in good sized swatches on different walls and looked at them throughout the day as the sun shifted. You need to see how artificial and natural light hits each color, to get a more accurate idea of which one best suits your space.
Due to the limited amount of natural light coming into this room, the colors that had a brown base were looking too muddy. If you want a little chuckle, check out my Instagram highlight stories labeled “Family Room” to see what the kids thought it looked like.
Benjamin Moore “Tapestry Beige” was the winner! Benjamin Moore “Pale Oak” and Farrow & Ball “Mizzle” were really close seconds.

The last thing we wanted was for our beloved family room to become stuffy. We don’t want the sweet memories of snuggling to movies as a family, eating popcorn while enjoying our beverages and laughing as we play with the kids, to evolve into, “Let’s not touch that please!” and “Not on the new sofa!” That’s not fun for anyone. Who wants to take on the task of a family room transformation, only to have the end result be one that you can’t really enjoy? (No one.)

Furniture made with Sunbrella fabric is available at many retailers, allowing you to select a Sunbrella fabric for your custom piece. I browsed through classic and lush Sunbrella fabric sofas, and saw tons of inspiring variations of colors and textures. Think classic style meets the ultimate trusted brand in fabric durability. It’s a match made in heaven. Literally!
The very first piece we selected is this Pottery Barn Square Arm Slipcovered Sectional with Sunbrella Performance Sahara Weave fabric in Ivory.

We’re so happy to own our very first sectional! Our old couch was small, and didn’t fit our whole family at the same time. We wanted a sofa that allowed everyone to snuggle together but not too oversized for this room, so the 110.5″ width sectional was the best choice. It actually got delivered eight months ago and we’ve been enjoying it since. Instant increase in cozy vibes and the Performance Sahara Weave didn’t disappoint. This incredibly soft fabric is such high quality. So far, we’ve been able to wipe away drink spills and blot out a marker stain caused by someone (ahem Jack). Did I mention it’s also removable! Which means, easy to wash when the time comes.
Next, we chose this Pottery Barn Jake Modular Ottoman with Sunbrella Performance Sahara Weave in Ivory.
This piece checks all the boxes and then some. Since comfort topped our list, we knew we’d be going with an ottoman instead of a coffee table. We love having the additional seating, surface space for puzzles and this one came with the added bonus of storage.

We decided this beautiful Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams Bella Bedroom Sofa with Sunbrella Performance Textured Two-Tone Linen in Taupe would create the perfect balance of style for this room.
Our sectional has a more casual feel, and this settee adds the perfect graceful touch. It’s kind of like when you pair nice gold jewelry with a casual white fitted tee. The jewelry elevates the white tee and together they create the perfect balance of class and comfort.

For our rug with high expectations, we went with the MGBW Acadia Sunbrella Flatweave Rug in Sand. Not only does it beautifully anchor the space with warmth and won’t annoyingly curl up, but the fabric gives me such peace of mind. No more worrying about spills or stains. Plus, we love the way adding a rug — even on top of carpet! — adds depth and an extra cozy style element.

We definitely wanted to stay the course with trusted Sunbrella fabrics, so I was ecstatic to find the perfect pillows at Sien + Co, in shades that have the warm, classic look we’re going for. It’s been so fun to mix and match them – look at the gorgeous colors of these pillows!

CESTA COAL | CESTA LINEN | SIERRA DUSTY ROSE | CESTA SMOKE
I had so much fun picking out every single one of these pieces. Which detail is your favorite? I’d love to read about them in the comments.
Thank you for following along with us as we give our basement family room a much-needed makeover. Be sure to stay tuned for part 2, where we tackle the kids’ playroom/craft area. I can’t wait to show you what we’ve got up our sleeves for that!
Our family room has always been the place we can all come together, but now that we’ve increased functionality and infused it with the style we love, we’re able to enjoy it even more than we already did.
It’s the same cherished room….just a little sweeter.
This blog post is in partnership with Sunbrella.
Looking for brass flush mount lighting options? I’ve got you covered with this round up!
When we first moved in over 10 years ago, we needed a cheap flush mount at the bottom of the basement steps. Brian went to The Home Depot and picked up an LED “boob” light flush mount – gasp! To be honest, I didn’t think much about it either. We were knee deep in our careers, planning a wedding, bought a new home and trying to do all the DIY projects within budget. The maintenance stuff drained our accounts. Although I wouldn’t think to ever add this light today, it was a different story back then.
You might also like: Small Flush Mount Lighting that are 8″ or Less in Diameter.
The LED flush mount has been acting up and it is time to replace it. I scoured the stores + online and wanted to share my lighting round ups of all the nice brass flush mounts I came across. Our ceiling is super low in the basement. It’s about 7′ tall so if you have a low ceiling like us, you might want to consider a ceiling flush mount. At the end, we actually decided to reuse a flush mount from the laundry room. We’re replacing that one with a semi-flush mount because the ceiling is much taller there. I’m going to clean and Rub n Buff it with the Antique Gold we have on hand. Make sure to tune into my Instagram stories to see how this turns out!


Looking for smaller flush mount lighting options? See this post for ones that are 8″ or less in diameter.
The most loved items from April.

The most loved items from March.

The last time we were in Charleston, South Carolina was the end of summer in 2017. Jack wasn’t even born yet but the four of us thoroughly enjoyed it! Although, we only visited once, I will always remember the delicious food, charm and Southern hospitality. We will be visiting again as a family so I asked my Instagram audience their top recommendations on things to do when visiting Charleston. I’ve broken them down into three categories: restaurants, activities and leisure. We will be using this as our guide.
If you’re ever considering visiting my city of Minneapolis, you can read my guide of Things to Do in and Around the Twin Cities.




*Indicates recommendations by multiple people
There were also suggestions to take a look at these guides from other bloggers.
Julia Berolzheimer Charleston Guide
Jean Wang (from Extra Petite) Charleston Guide
There are so many fun recommendations! Thank you to every one who chimed in. I will report back after we return from our Charleston trip and share our very own experience and recommendations.
This week’s highlights.
We had our drapes installed back in September of 2022. It didn’t turn out how we wanted so I didn’t share on my IG. The revision was recently installed and it’s perfectly beautiful and functional. Head to my IG to see the two reels you may have missed of both installs with some tips.
Q: What would you recommend for privacy solution for your windows?
A: I’d add roman shades or do the double rods. See my Pinterest board for ideas.
Q: Link to your marble top pedestal table?
A: It’s a vintage find but I linked options here.
Your family-friendly movie suggestions that were kid approved (note I have not reviewed any of these and only listing what was shared with me – please check ratings and view ahead of time to ensure it’s appropriate for your children):
* asterisk represents more than one people recommended

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Have a great weekend friends!
I’m trying something different and putting this week’s highlights into a blog post.

I did a try on with Faherty today and Brian joined in! I love this family brand because of their effortless style, good vibes and great quality. My code: PATTICAKE20 will get you 20% off your order for the next 72 hours only! Click on photos to directly shop the outfits.

Q: What’s the plant in your bedroom in front of the mirror?
A: It’s called Rio Dipladenia. Easy to care for but currently out of season. I bought for $3 at the store last summer. They bloom so beautifully!
Q: Link for the flush mount in our bedroom?
A: Bedroom sources can be found here. Including the flush mount.
Q: What do you use to create your mood boards for the bedroom?
A: Adobe InDesign. I’ve been using this program since college and was required when I was a product designer. If I didn’t know InDesign, I’d try Canva.
Q: Did you size up for the Askov Finlayson Parka?
A: No. I typically wear size XXS or XS. My parka is XS + fits perfectly. Reminder, their end of season sale is happening right now. $200 off – click here to shop!
Q: Where did you get your accent chairs in your living room?
A: Interior Define. Love them! However, they recently sold off to another company after some financial & shipping issues so please do your research!
I know you’re wondering which bed did we decide on??? Drumroll…The Caldwell Camel Brown Oak Wood Upholstered Storage Queen Bed by Jake Arnold!
Side note. It’s always an experience sharing any project on Instagram. I get all kinds of unsolicited opinions lol. I don’t mind people sharing as long as they’re respectful and you all do such a great job of this! I’ve gotten some funny comments saying the beds remind them of a tombstone, French toast, loaf of bread to…a bum! Kindness and humor are always welcome here but I won’t put up with rude or mean comments which I rarely encounter (I ignore them and move on). If you want to share projects publicly, just remember to be strong in your stance. Not everyone will like or agree with your choices and that’s okay! Take it with a grain of salt.
Have a great weekend friends!
Looking for inspiration to adding classic design elements to your ensuite bedroom? I’m sharing my design boards in this post.

I feel like the ensuite bedroom is always last on everyone’s list. It is for us at least, from a design standpoint. When we moved in, we stripped the old peeling wallpaper, painted the walls, refinished the wood floor and called it a day. That’s actually a lot of work! It wasn’t until we renovated the ensuite bathroom that the design elements for our bedroom came into play. Before I share my style boards for adding classic design elements to our ensuite bedroom, let’s take a walk down memory lane.
See our bedroom sources here
Tour the girls’ shared bedroom
I fell in love with this main bedroom instantly! The sleeping porch was such a cool room off the bedroom and even with small closets, we could see all of its potential.

We did all of the work ourselves stripping the old wallpaper from the ensuite bedroom. Every night after getting home from work, we’d have dinner and start working on the house. Usually staying up until 1:00am to make as much progress as we could. We painted all of the walls and trim and it stayed untouched until almost 10 years later.


Wardrobe built-ins were added on each side to expand our closet foot print. It also added a classic design element. Last, the walls were painted a creamy color in Benjamin Moore Cloud Cover.


This year, we plan to add drapes with Euro pleats and a French return rod, which will really dress up this room and make it look more classic. I can’t wait to share that with you next week!

Then, the design magic is more with the room furnishings and decor. Here are the boards for the ensuite bedroom design. The only difference is the bed frame. Which style do you like best?
Some of these products, we’ve already installed or ordered and some we still need to hunt down.
This was the first option until the Jake Arnold x Crate and Barrel collection launched a few weeks ago! I fell in love with the bed frame in the first design board. However, I’m concerned that it may limit my bedding selections. While this bed frame, would allow for more bedding color choices. We were so close to ordering a similar design from Interior Define, several months ago. But we paused after hearing rumors that the company was having financial and shipping issues.

The most loved items from February.


When it comes to winter here in Minnesota, you have to be prepared for extreme cold weather and snow. After living here for over 10 years, I’m learning to be smarter about dressing for the cold and making the most of it! I set out to find the best affordable fleece-lined leggings and tights and breaking it down to share with you. Fleece-lined leggings and tights are perfect for everyday wear and since cold weather doesn’t end until May here, you’ll find me in these until then. Let’s dive into it – get ready to cue the Pinterest winter wardrobe inspiration and just outfit ideas in general to help you tolerate the cold while still looking effortlessly cute!

– Yogalicious lux leggings
– Willit leggings
– 90 degrees leggings
– Roma story tights in nude color
– Chrleisure tights/leggings
– A new day fleece lined leggings
– A New Day ribbed tights

Yogalicious Lux Fleece Leggings
*Update: may be sold out. Check this link for their new design without pockets
Target is a great place for affordable stylish home items to comfy clothing. These leggings fit right into that expectation. With an AMAZING price of $19.99, a huge color selection, and an almost perfect fit – you cannot go wrong with this!
Price: $19.99
Reviews: 5 stars out of 9 reviews
Color Selections: Khaki, Black, Blue, Deep Gray, Greige, Navy Blue, Purple, White, Red
Size Range: X-Small to 3x-Large
Material Breakdown: Polyester & Spandex; Very Soft
Fit Description: High Rise; Perfectly Snugged and comfortable in waist
Status: Keep
With almost a perfect 5 star rating from 1,197 individuals, these fleece lined leggings (and water resistant!) really grabbed my attention. While the price was affordable, I found the fit to be a mixed review. The waist was good in terms of holding in my mid section, but the knees were saggy. They were buttery soft, but the crotch area was loose fitting. The overall cut wasn’t great for me and while my legs were comfortable, the top band not being seamless made it uncomfortable.
Price: $30.99
Reviews: 4.5 stars out of 1,197 reviews
Color Selections: Khaki, Black, Blue, Deep Gray, Greige, Navy Blue, Purple, White Red
Size Range: X-Small to 3x-Large
Material Breakdown: Polyester & Spandex; Soft
Fit Description: High Rise; Saggy in knees & crotch
Status: Return
90 Degrees Fleece Lined Leggings
With a strong look comparison to the previous two sets, I was intrigued to see how this one would compare. At first, the fit appeared to be good and held in my mid section nicely. However, the top band wasn’t seamless and so uncomfortable! But the biggest bummer was that the material was kind of scratchy feeling and not soft.
Price: $29.99
Reviews: 4 stars out of 20 reviews
Color Selections: Black, Pavement, Poseidon, Evening Blue, Purple, Rhubarb
Size Range:X-Small to 2x-Large
Material Breakdown: Polyester & Spandex; Not Soft
Fit Description: High Rise; Not Comfortable
Status: Return
I wanted nude colored tights to wear under my dresses and was excited to try this because the description says warm and thick. These look like classic tights and are high-waisted. Unfortunately, the cut was not great (loose around the ankles) and the fit was uncomfortable.
Price: $24.95 (currently on sale for $16.99)
Reviews: 4 stars out of 12,565 reviews
Color Selections: Black, Brown, Khaki, Purple, Wine Red
Size Range: Small-Medium
Material Breakdown: Polyester Blend; Semi Soft
Fit Description: High-Rise; Not Comfortable
Status: Return
Chrleisure Fleece Lined Tights / Leggings
I wanted warm black tights that I could wear under a dress or an oversized sweater that didn’t look like athleisure wear. These were super comfortable and in general fit well but there isn’t a tag and they look exactly the same from both sides. Which meant it was difficult to determine the front from the back. Although this one had a strong perfume smell, I really liked that they could be worn as leggings or pulled down to cover my heels to act more like tights.
Price: $16.95
Reviews: 4.5 stars out of 13,294 reviews
Color Selections: Black, Gray, Beige, Translucent, Red, Brown
Size Range: X-Small / Small or Medium / Large
Material Breakdown: Polyester & Spandex; Very Soft
Fit Description: High-Rise; Pretty Comfortable
Status: Keep
A New Day Fleece Lined Leggings
Sometimes you just want a pair of leggings that will never be for a workout. These are that perfect pair for everyday casual wear. The overall fit was seamless and at a good price. My only negative was that the fleece was not as soft.
Price: $18.00
Reviews: 4 stars out of 116 reviews
Color Selections: Heather Gray, Brown, Charcoal, Burgundy, Olive, Navy
Size Range: S/M, L/XL, 1X, 2X
Material Breakdown: Cotton, Polyster & Spandex; Pretty Soft
Fit Description: High-Rise Cut & Ankle Length; Good Fit
Status: Keep
A New Day Ribbed Fleece Tights
This was another option for nude colored tights. Since the other pair didn’t work out, I was hoping these would do the trick. It had a nod to a vintage look with a chic feel. They were a good fit, holding my midsection in nicely. The fleece lining was nice and soft. The ankle area was not loose like the other pair. For the price, this was a great option! I love that I can wear dresses in the winter with these on!
Price: $12.00
Reviews: 4 stars out of 18 reviews
Color Selections: Black or Oatmeal
Size Range: S/M, M/L, L/XL
Material Breakdown: Ribbed Fabric; Super Soft
Fit Description: High-Rise and Opaque; Good Fit
Status: Keep
Now that I’ve reviewed all seven pairs of fleece lined leggings and tights…drumroll…
*Update: may be sold out. Check this link for their new design without pockets
These are perfect for a winter date night or to spend time in our renovated basement when it’s all completed!
You shared your favorite fleece lined leggings and tights in my Instergram poll and the Athleta Tight was the clear favorite! They have the Rainier with the brushed soft interior and Polartec specifically for cold weather climates. They’re more of a splurge than those I reviewed but could be worth checking out!